How to influence personal responsibility
I have several nieces and nephews from different siblings and have always wanted to be a positive influence on them. I know I have judgemental tendencies, but I try hard to keep them to myself.
I'm concerned my sister is being taken advantage of by her children (to the point of physical and emotional exhaustion). I think she does too much for them. Is there a way I can influence their behavior to take some responsibility for chores around the home? What are age appropriate chores? Is it ever a good idea to tie allowances to chores?
I know its a bad idea, but I feel like I should withdraw birthday gifts.
Frustrated and looking for some guidance from experts.