by Melanie Linn Gutowski

A recently-published study has shed light on a profound shift in the life cycles of many Americans.

The study, conducted by Princeton University and the Brookings Institution, reported that more people now view marriage and parenthood as lifestyle choices rather than requirements for entry into adulthood.

Dr. Frank Furstenberg, a scholar with the MacArthur Foundation Research Network, told the New York Times that "People between 20 and 34 are taking longer to finish their educations, establish themselves in careers, marry, have children and become financially indepedent."

The Times also noted that "at the same time, more women are remaining childless, either by choice or circumstance. Twenty percent of women in their 40s do not have children."

Dr. Furstenberg pointed out that "not having children would have been considered bizarre or tragic in the '50s; now it's a lifestyle choice."

In perhaps the most surprising finding of the study, the trend toward delayed motherhood has stretched across all races, ethnicities and income groups participating in the survey.

For Savvy Aunties, this is only further validation of our life choices and circumstances; marriage and parenthood are not the only paths to adult fulfillment.

Melanie Linn Gutowski, Savvy Auntie's Associate Editor, is a proud Godmother and ABC.

Published: June 22, 2010